zakbaganses: jazzisback: sauvamente: Okay b…

zakbaganses:

jazzisback:

sauvamente:

Okay but how is this our problem? What’s the context?

Thank you, like what does this have to do with me? I’m supposed to be considerate of what here, a lack of socialization?

You’re supposed to be aware that some people were raised to be tolerated and that transfers into their adult life. Always being alone as a child doesn’t help you grow into a social adult. It leads you to be friends with people you believe are your friends but are only tolerating you. It leads you to believe that the people who love you and are around you are only tolerating you because you’re around. It feels scary to ask people for anything because you’re afraid they’ll give you what you want only to get you away from them. It makes you feel unlovable, unsocial, and intolerable to the people you love and should know, love you.